Things to Write Home About – 1/9/11

by Tara Ziegmont

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We are still adjusting. It’s not going as smoothly as I had imagined.

Depression doesn’t clear up over night. The baby isn’t breastfeeding as well as I’d hoped and isn’t gaining weight. She doesn’t sleep well, and we have to visit the pediatrician for weight checks about every third day.

Grace needs a lot more attention than she’s been getting. The poor girl feels ignored (and often is).

I am sitting on a post about the struggles we are having (or maybe they’re just my struggles), but it’s so raw that I’m not sure I can publish it.

Things to Write Home About is safe. It’s normal. I had a few hours to myself today while Joe and Grace visited the Pennsylvania Farm Show with my sister, and I spent it lying on the couch, nursing and pumping and reading my favorite blogs.

For the sake of normalcy.

I needed normal. It feels good to share with you again.

Here are some of the awesome posts I discovered:

Homegrown: Parenting & Having Fun As A Family

Home Cooking: Recipes & Kitchen Tips

Homemaking: Keeping Your House Running

Homemade: Crafts & Other Projects

  • Chrissy at Hickey Pickety Handmade posted a no-hem skirt tutorial (I have an aversion to hemming, so it’s perfect!)
  • Kaysi at Keeping It Simple posted a cleavage hider that attaches to her bra straps – so smart!

Healthier Mom: Improving my Physical & Emotional Well-being

  • Marelisa at Abundance Online shared 32 tips for a slimmer, healthier you (sadly, Dove Chocolates don’t make the list)
  • My friend, Jan, from 5 Minutes for Mom, wrote about her experiences with postpartum depression nine years ago
  • Dena fro Mother Inferior considered what her life might be like if she didn’t have the safety net of a stable family at (in)courage

If you are featured above (or were featured during any past week), please feel free to grab the follow code and post the badge on your site:

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Have you posted something this week that was worth writing Home about? Send me the link, and maybe you’ll see it here next Sunday!

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1 vanderbiltwife January 9, 2011 at 10:34 pm

Just wanted to let you know that I love you, and I would mail you milk if I could! Don’t kill yourself over it, OK? I can’t wait to see more pictures.

Jessie

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2 Tara @ Feels Like Home January 10, 2011 at 12:25 am

I have her hospital pictures scheduled for Wordless Wednesday. I haven’t taken many pictures this week because all I’ve done is pump and nurse. Ugh!

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3 Tiffany@EatatHome January 9, 2011 at 11:57 pm

I thought adding the second child was hardest. It’s such a huge adjustment for everyone. My oldest was not happy with me that I’d brought a baby brother home to her. I hope things start to get easier soon. And I believe they will. It doesn’t stay this hard always. Hugs and prayers to you!

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4 Tara @ Feels Like Home January 10, 2011 at 12:24 am

Thanks Tiffany. It’s good to know that it’s not just me. This transition has been harder than I could ever have imagined.

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5 Alexis January 11, 2011 at 1:21 pm

I struggled with the baby blues after both my kids but it was far worse after my second. My first dc had difficulty breastfeeding and had to have constant weight checks. Take care of yourself. I wish I had rested more after I had my babies. Best of luck to you.

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6 Denadyer January 12, 2011 at 4:30 am

Thanks so much for featuring my post! I’m honored.

I went through PPD with my first son and it WAS raw…wrenching…exhausting and overwhelming. I’m praying for you and your family!

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